I have had two clients in the last week come to me and tell me how I taught them so much. The interesting thing to me is that I had not seen the one client for about a year. She is such a delightful person but it was in those moments when you help someone see their worth and talk to them about setting their life in place that counts. Every word you say to someone means something. Every word that you say to yourself means something. It’s such a time where we don’t always think about what we say in the moment. Then we get so frustrated when we don’t have the life we desire.
As many of you know I believe in God. I also believe that we create the life we live and that we can choose to involve God in those decisions or not. The beauty of free will. So in those moments when you want to yell at your husband, kids, parents, siblings, etc…. How would it feel if you could stop yourself and not yell?
I know that when I was and when I do work with clients if I were to yell at them or tell them they are doing something wrong all the time, a couple of things could/would happen. First they probably would not come back. Second they are not going to here a thing I’m trying to say even though I think it is best for them. I use to do with my kids and spouse when I was younger. Now I know that how I treat them is what I am going to get back from them.
You may be asking how do you treat someone nice when they are being so mean to you, or how to come to someone with peace when they are so angry. The secret for me is when someone is very angry or yelling at you and you look at them and say I love you or just express kindness, I’m sure you can guess what happens. They can’t continue to act that way. You start to break the energetic connection with them. There are many other little techniques that I have learn over the years that helps with this. I am looking forward to sharing little tidbits with you.
Would you like to receive little positive affirmations daily?